Are men’s issues not valid enough or are they brushed under the carpet because we are not ready to address the toxic male ideal?

Your ‘gora chitta mukhda’ and your ‘chittiyan kalaiyan’ are not enough. Apparently, we need to have perfect vaginas as well.

Have you ever thought of BDSM as a scary activity? Do you shy away from BDSM because people who indulge in it are mentally unstable?